Why Do We Start with Activities and Learning New Skills in Therapy?
- Varuna Sharma
- Jun 25, 2025
- 2 min read
In therapy, before we can help someone heal from any past hurts, we need to make sure they have the right tools to handle tough feelings and stay strong. Here’s why:
💪 Getting Stronger
Doing activities and learning new skills help us become stronger inside. This makes it easier to deal with difficult times.
☎ Handling Big Feelings
Before talking about sad or scary things from the past, it’s important to learn ways to calm down and feel better. This might include:
- Deep breathing
- Counting to ten
- Talking to a friend
😎 Feeling Confident
When we learn new skills and see that they work, we start to feel confident. This helps us believe that we can handle therapy and any challenges that come up.
😊 Feeling Safe
Starting with activities and skills helps us feel safe and comfortable in therapy. Feeling safe is important when we talk about tough experiences from the past.
🚴♂️ Feeling Better Right Away
These activities and skills can help us feel better quickly. This might include:
- Playing a fun game
- Doing a favourite hobby
- Relaxing exercises
🧘♀️ Getting Ready for Tough Talks
Talking about past hurts can be difficult to handle. By learning how to handle big feelings first, we are more ready and can stay calm during these tough talks.
👣 Small Steps
Therapy is like taking small steps. We start with easier things to get better at handling big feelings, then we can move on to talking about past. This way, we don’t get overwhelmed and can keep going without giving up.
Starting with activities and learning new skills in therapy is like building a toolbox. It gives us the tools we need to stay strong and handle tough feelings. This makes it safer and easier to talk about past hurts and heal.

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